There is no big slavery than the patterns that we operate on from our childhood. It governs us unconsciously. Some we already have within and some we pick on the way as we progress on our journey of our life.

But how many of us think about it. Do they really serve us or are they just allowing us to live our life mechanically? Do they really help us in our growth and allow us to bloom to our full potential? I feel they are more pulling us down to live the so called comfortable life than to explore our inner potential, take risks and enjoy the so called freedom of choice and get to the heights of our own self.

It’s true that breaking a pattern is not so easy. The first and foremost step is that we become aware about the patterns by which we operate our life. Accept it and be ready to change it so that we are open to the different dimensions of life. At Urva Life we explore deeply into restructuring unconscious patterns that help individuals gently and gracefully intake conscious pattern building for a multidimensional way of living.

Once we accept the pattern and identify it replace it with new habit which on practice becomes our new pattern but need to make sure that the new pattern absolutely serves us and pushes us to our higher purpose.

Now how do we get these patterns. So many ways to it. It can be through our environment, our own life experiences, people around us etc. But no blame to be showered on anything that formed our patterns. In short, what we take into our human system unconsciously through all our senses becomes our pattern which governs us for the rest of our life. And yes we mistake them for the so called “COMFORT”.

In my experience I would breakdown the pattern (which do not serve us anymore) breaking process as below

• Willingness to change
• Identify the pattern which no longer serves us
• Find the best replacement for the old pattern.

This is a crucial step where we need to choose the right one. And the role of a mentor, a friend, a group, a travel, a book anything which creates a new exposure to learn and grow can be taken up to build the new pattern.

• Implement the new pattern

This is where consistency plays the key role

• Repeat and keep repeating (but this time CONSCIOUSLY) to make it a new habit which serves for a higher purpose or a goal.
• Celebrate the NEW YOU

WOW!!  Since its just 5 more days to go for a brand new year to start, will this not be a good way to create the new YOU. So lovely souls have a beautiful year ahead. Wish this blog of mine would add value to bring the tiny changes in you for the coming year and help you reach your highest potential.

HAPPY NEW YEAR 2026!!